Lame love triangle right? But what if X is aware that Y is interested in Z, but Y is not aware? Here's a diagram to illustrate with Jessica Alba playing the part of Z:
The person I was talking to was X, and I had no idea what to tell him. That's an uber sticky situation, if you know what I'm saying. If X made a move on Z, KNOWING that Y is interested, isn't he knowingly hurting his BFF? What if X and Z go out? Doesn't X feel guilty? How does Y react if that happens?The alternative would be for X to do nothing, and then watch if Y makes a move on Z. How shitty is that? How does X act when he has to hang out with Y and Z? Does he suck it up for the sake of his friend's happiness?
I couldn't help him. I would have no idea what to do in that situation. Have a board meeting with everyone involved and spell it out?
I think the Wizard of Oz said it best when he said: "As for you, my galvanized friend, you want a heart. You don't know how lucky you are not to have one. Hearts will never be practical until they can be made unbreakable."
Hope it works out for you X...
Hmmm yeah these things suck, but I really think it depends on how likely Y is to ask out Z. If he's about to go for it, then yeah - it's a dick move to sneak in before and snag the gal. But if Y is just dickin' around and being a coward, X should just go for it. Screw it, give yourself a chance at some relationship happiness if you really, really like the girl.
ReplyDeleteBut the most likely scenario is that both X and Y will hem and haw and a new figure (lets call him W) will ask Z out and snag her away before either of them grows a pair.
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ReplyDeleteYour graceful words always highlight your points so delicately
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